Think about how you would participate in a group project that your teacher assigned. Some might take charge and direct the others to stay on task while others might entertain and keep the group laughing. Maybe you take the more creative side of the project, or you are encouraging the others to keep going when they want to give up. Perhaps you remind everyone to have fun with the project and not take it so seriously, or you just roll with it and make sure no one gets stressed out.
Now imagine that your outdoor plans finally made it out of the group chat, but it suddenly started storming. Are you rolling up your sleeves to bake a wonderous dessert or getting sweet treats, turning on a movie, and cracking jokes? You are possibly grabbing some art supplies whether it is colored pencils or paints. You might be thinking it is a perfect time to hit the gym and get those gains. Maybe you build a blanket fort and pretend to be in Neverland, or you take a blanket and curl up on the couch for a nice long nap.
Your friend has called you and they are very upset. Do you try to find a solution to their problem, make them laugh so they feel better, or think of creative ways to cheer them up? Perhaps you motivate them to stay strong through their tough times, plan an adventure so that they forget their problems or comfort them with a hug and gentle words.
Where are you spending most of your time? In the kitchen cooking up delicious meals, with your friends having a grand time and laughing like hyenas, at the beach making sandcastles or an energetic sporting event? You might enjoy seeking out new adventures and trying new things or relaxing in the nice warm sunshine.
Finally, what is your biggest dream? Owning your own business or making people laugh? Do you want to find where you belong or become the best version of yourself? Is staying free and young in your heart what you desire, or do you just want to live happily ever after?
Whether you are as hardworking and determined as Princess Tiana, as hilarious and loyal as Mike Wazowski, as creative and caring as Lilo, as strong and brave as Hercules, as adventurous and free-spirited as Peter Pan, or as kind and dreamy as Sleeping Beauty, your story is its own fairytale.
